TOWARD BECOMING A SPIRITUAL FAQIR (Sufi)

    The Arabic word ‘faqir’ is traditionally used by Sufi Muslim ascetics. In Islamic context, it refers to a person who is humble and often signifies a state of spiritual poverty, where one relies on God rather than material wealth.
    Approaching life in this context does not necessarily mean abandoning worldly life but rather leading a life where Allah is in your heart (qalb) and the world (dunya) is in your pocket. I believe this approach to be most appropriate because you are focused on Allah and not dominated by the glitter of this world.
    To understand this approach, it is necessary to understand perception as it has been presented in the Qur’an. The Qur’an mentions three levels of perception. These deal with Ilmul Yaqeen (Knowledge of Certainty), Ainul Yaqeen (Eye of Certainty - Inner Vision) and Haqqul Yaqeen (Reality as it really exists with Allah).
    Ilmul Yaqeen, is the level of mundane existence. It deals with worldly life. Most people are stuck here. It all about the daily-in-and-outs of life. It devolves around cause and effect; fault finding etc. It cannot go beyond what you see or intellectual arrive at. A pure waste of time. ‘Ainul Yaqeen on the other hand, transcends to a level of perception that goes beyond what you see. The ‘spiritual heart’ (qalb) perceives the essence of the thing directly, without the mediation of intermediaries. It is like standing before the fire, feeling its heat, and witnessing its light. Here, the "eye" is the Basirah (spiritual discernment). ‘Ainul Yaqeen is "much more than just consciousness." In many Tariqah frameworks, consciousness (shu’ur) is merely the stage of being awake to one's surroundings. ‘Ainul Yaqeen, however, is Mushahada (direct witnessing/contemplation). ‘Ainul Yaqeen is a state of active presence. You are not just looking at the Truth; you are "seeing" through the light provided by the Truth itself, as suggested in the hadith qudsi: "I become the hearing with which he hears and the sight with which he sees." Haqqul Yaqeen, deals with the reality of things as ordained by Allah. The Spirit (Ruh) becomes annihilated in the Truth as it exists with Allah. It is like being consumed by the fire until there is no distinction between the witness and the witnessed. The Qur’anic verses dealing with the Battle of Badr are a clear example. The Prophet (s.a.w.) is told that it was not he who slew them, but it was Allah.

HAQQUL YAQEEN

    At this level of perception, everything begins and ends with Allah. Only He exists and there is no power greater than His. Nothing takes place without Him knowing nor consenting to it. In the words of ABUL HASAN AHMAD B. MUHAMMAD AL-NURI, a well-known saint: Those who regard things as determined by Allah turn to Allah in everything," because they find rest in regarding the Creator, not created objects, whereas they would always be in tribulation if they considered things to be the causes of actions. To do so is polytheism, for a cause is not self-subsistent, but depends on the Causer. When they turn to Him, they escape from trouble.” (Kashful Mahjub).
     ABU ‘ABDAL-RAHMAN HATIM B. 'ULWAN” AL-ASAMM said, “Lust is of three kinds: lust in eating, lust in speaking and lust in looking. Guard your food by trust in Allah, your tongue be telling the truth, and your eye by taking example ('ibrat)." Real trust in Allah proceeds from right knowledge, for those who know Him aright have confidence that will give them their daily bread, and they speak and look with right knowledge, so that their food and drink is only love, and their speech is only ecstasy, and their looking is only contemplation. Accordingly, when they know aright they eat what is lawful, and when they speak aright they utter praise (of Allah), and when they look aright they behold Him, because no food is lawful except what He has given and permits to be eaten, and no praise is rightly offered to anyone in the eighteen thousand worlds except to Him, and it is not allowable to look on anything in the universe except His beauty and majesty. It is not lust when you receive food from Him and eat by His leave, or when you speak of Him by His leave, or when you see His actions by His leave. On the other hand, it is lust when of your own will you eat even lawful food, or of your own will you speak even praise of Him, or of your own will you look even for the purpose of seeking guidance. (Kashful Mahjub)
    My personal experience: I realise that when dealing with people, I forget that I am viewing things from the level of Haqqul Yaqeen when everyone is at the level of Ilmul Yaqeen....not on the same wave-length. I then make adjustments. I am tuned to Haqqul Yaqeen due to the dhikr practiced, prescribed by my shaykhs. These have activated a sense of awareness of reality (haq). However, I must say, that I have difficulty restraining myself from saying what I should not utter as I see it before me in a person or situation, because relationships are affected. Its a weakness, a lack of tolerance, as I am unable to put up with idle gossip, backbiting etc.
    Living in the acute awareness of Haqqul Yaqeen while navigating a world operating on Ilmul Yaqeen—is one of the most well-documented challenges on the Sufi path. It is often described not merely as a lack of tolerance, but as the friction between Haqiqah (Essential Truth) and Shariah/Adab (Outer Harmony and Etiquette). When the heart is attuned through prescribed dhikr, the veils thin, and the reality (haq) of human actions, motives, and spiritual states becomes glaringly clear. As Abu al-Hasan al-Nuri noted, seeing everything as determined by Allah shifts your entire orientation toward the Originator rather than the secondary causes. However, expressing that sight prematurely or directly to those who do not share that vision creates dissonance.
    Managing this state is necessary, however, one does not need to mention everything, only some important aspects in the form of advice. If asked for further clarification, then mentioning the truth becomes valid. 
    The Divine Attribute of As-Satteer, where Allah sees all the hidden faults and internal states of creation every moment, yet He continues to sustain them, provide for them, and cover their flaws. The spiritual maturity of Haqqul Yaqeen requires adopting this specific character trait: seeing the reality, yet actively choosing to veil it out of mercy. The Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) advised, "Speak to people according to the capacity of their intellects." Offering a Haqqul Yaqeen insight to someone at the level of Ilmul Yaqeen is like trying to pour a torrent of water into a tiny tea cup—it causes overflow and damage rather than benefit.
   Recognizing the Hikmah (Wisdom): The frustration with idle talk and backbiting is a healthy spiritual reaction; your heart naturally rejects spiritual poison. However, the test at this station is acquiring patience (Sabr) with the developmental stages of others. They are where they are in Allah's decree, just as you are where you are by His grace.  
    This is a valid truth but often difficult to abide by. I go through it every day. One approach, is to seek forgiveness from Allah, which I do everyday for my lack of patience, and the other is to silently pray to Allah to cover their faults and guide their heart because they are what they are.
    I am from the Chistiyah Sabriyah Sufi Order, whereas the Qalandari Sufi path is known for its intense, uncompromising focus on the raw Essence (Dhat) and the immediate, unvarnished witnessing of Reality. It strips away pretense rapidly. The instruction Shaykh Izrarur Haq gave me concerning exposing the bare truth as it is shown to me, was precise spiritual guidance meant to protect both me and those around me. In response to “forgetting to be polite" when shown a reality, I was told that it is not a moral failing or a lack of tolerance; it is the natural consequence of high-voltage spiritual sight meeting fragile human vessels.
    When the veil is lifted to show you the reality of a situation or a person's state, that vision comes with the authority of Haqq. Naturally, normal social pleasantries, idle gossip, and small talk feel utterly meaningless—almost unbearable. But as Hazrat Izharul Haq warned, uttering that raw truth acts like a flash of blinding light: it disorients people, damages relationships, and causes them to recoil, because they do not have the spiritual "eyes" to process it. In the Qalandariyah framework, the higher discipline (Mujahadah) is not in the seeing—it is in the containing (Kitman al-Sirr, keeping the secret).

MANAGING SITUATIONS

    Managing situations is an art. In Haqqul Yaqeen, it does not deal with hypocrisy and double-standards. It deals with “deliberately wearing outer garments" when interacting with the world:
  1. IDLE TALK: View Idle Talk as a Canopy, Not a Barrier: When people engage in gossip or superficial matters, recognize that this is the protective canopy Allah has placed over their current level of awareness. Instead of feeling compelled to pierce that canopy with the sharp truth you see, treat their talk as the natural noise of the market. You can be in the market without buying the goods.
     
  2. The "TWO-ROOM HEART: Keep the inner chamber of your heart reserved entirely for Haqq, your dhikr, (Remembrances of Allah), Siratal Mustaqim, doing good etc., However, at the same time establish an outer "reception room" for general society. In that outer room, your only job is to offer basic kindness, gentle silence, or a polite nod—never the sharp edge of what you see behind their eyes. 
     
  3. TRANSFORMING SIGHT INTO SHEILDING: When a person's inner reality or fault is made plain to you, treat it as a trust (Amanah) given to you by Allah to cover, not to declare. The spiritual strength lies in seeing the truth fully, yet speaking to the person with the gentle mercy of someone who sees nothing at all.

CONCLUSION

    What I have presented here is a general outline which I try to observe and practice. I will admit that doing so is a struggle. I am fortunate to have had as my Shaykh, Hadrat Shahidullah Faridi (Rahimullah). Seeking a true shaykh is important. Focusing on attaining Haqqul Yaqeen, makes a great deal of difference. Enjoying fame over climbing Mount Everest many times is nothing compared to witnessing the reality of existence as it really exists with Allah. We are nothing but droplet of water falling from the sky, seeking a stream, then a river to reach the sea, to become one in colour and taste. The day He created Adam and breath into him, He is within you; He is outside of you; He is everywhere and in everything. The whole Creation is an expression of His Divine Names and Attributes. This realisation at this level of understanding, clearly defines Creation and our Existence. Look inward, turn to Allah and submit yourself to His Divine Will rather that chart a course based on your whims and fancies, based on Freedom of Choice. It is a fruitless exercise, similar to a tree that bears bitter fruit. [Mokhtar Stork 10 Aug, 2026]